Constant Arousal in Orgasm Denial

It’s getting to that point for me, that point in cagedmonkey’s orgasm denial where I start to feel it. I’m nearing the end of my cycle and feeling much better emotionally at the same time. What that means is that my horny has kicked in high gear. It’s like I’m a pimply faced teenage boy who just got a shot of testosterone (right, Drew?). What that means for hubby is that I’m constantly hungry for him in some sexual way. Whether I’m smacking his ass as he walks by, walking up to him grabbing his caged cock through his pants as I kiss him deep or pulling him into the bedroom, locking the door and fucking the hell out of his face, it’s me, all day, in sexual attack mode.

It’s been about 6 weeks now since hubby’s last orgasm. I know, I choose to keep him denied because thats how I like him. The constant crazy high of his arousal is good for me. He’s more focused and attentive, more willing in all aspects of life. He’s completely and utterly horny for me which boosts me. I love him that way… but I also LOVE LOVE LOVE to make him cum. So yeah, there’s my dilemma. This whole denying him orgasm is really hard on me and all day, today, I’ve been arguing with myself about just saying screw it and letting him cum so I can use him to fuck me good and hard like I need to be. I think, if I wasnt on my cycle, I would be ok because he could just use the RodeoH harness with “Adam” in it and slam my pussy good and hard with my favorite toy. I know I’m going to have to basically torture myself for the next few days until I can have that. Why don’t I have him use it now? I don’t know, I have this thing about my toys being used during my period. If I use his cock (which I did the other night) it’s not a big deal to me because it washes off much more easily.

So before I go letting him erupt 6 weeks worth of his hot cum into my pussy I’m going to force myself to wait. Simply because I have a plan, I want him to wait until we renew our vows in January. I want him to save up and build up that incredible amount of horny and desire. I want to feel his passion that night after we are all lovey and promising to be together and take care of each other forever. I want his desire to be so much so that his orgasm is felt deep through his entire body and lasts for a long time.

So, as much as I love to make him cum, I love that constant arousal that comes with denying him his orgasm. I’m happy to remind myself of that and I’m happy waiting it out and having him please me in every other way possible. I’ll get mine and, eventually, I’ll get his too! 🙂


9 responses to “Constant Arousal in Orgasm Denial

  1. Lady M, I always really love your posts. Your caged monkey is one lucky man to be sure.

    AS you may know, Mistress K. and I recently renewed our wedding vows and we did so on a decidedly FLM basis. If you are interested, you can read all about it on my blog in the last 2 posts of October and in the first post of November this year. We had a ball and as can probably appreciate, it was a beautiful, loving and emotional ceremony for each of us.

    I’m not certain if your vows renewal ceremony is intended to be vanilla or if you are considering incorporating FLM in to the ceremony, but in either event, congratulations on your upcoming ceremony rededicating your love for each other.


    • Subhub, dear, I’ve kept track of your renewal for months haha! I loved reading about your ceremony.

      Our ceremony is fully vanilla (on the outside) but we know what it means to us. 🙂


      • Yes Lady M, of course. Please forgive suggesting otherwise. I cherished our fully vanilla ceremonies as well and look forward to many more.


      • Don’t take that wrong, if we could add our D/s FLM stuff in there we totally would. I’m sure cagedmonkey and I will find our own way since we are writing our own vows. We just don’t have the opportunity to make it be anything other than vanilla. 🙂

        Though hubby will certainly be wearing his cage during it hehe 🙂


  2. That sounds like a great idea. I’ve waited an extended period of time around our anniversary as well and it’s a lot of fun. And for renewing vows, that just sounds perfect.

    Between now and then, try something new. You like to make him cum?, so make him cum in a different way, a way that wont change his brain chemistry and keep him behaving the same way as if he never came at all. Make him cum from anal penetration or some other method just like some women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. Others can cum from anal penetration. Some can even orgasm from ear lobe kissing. The thing is, for guys, as I’m sure you know, this type of orgasm is very different and as satisfying it it, it does not change the brain chemistry, this means he will be the same horny guy afterwards, but now, you can hash out the bedpost for doing your favorite thing, making your man cum, but not in the traditional sense. Just my two cents 😉


    • Thanks so much for your comment KP, as always! I certainly didn’t think of maybe a ruined O our something along those lines. We’ve had quite the intense moments the last few days but nothing really compares to that filled up feeling when his cock erupts inside of me. 🙂


      • I just enjoy leaving the comments. My wife comes from the same boat you do. she like delivering an intense orgasm and getting the flow from it 😉
        As I said to Thumper earlier today. Tease and denial is not about the sex, but the intimacy and you two definitely have that going for you 😉


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