Mail Chastity: Female Chastity

Ok so this was actually a comment on the blog and not really mail but this is a better way to address it. I’m sure there are a few people out there who’d like to know.

pcguy asks:
“One question though.. You’d talked about the possibility of maybe eventually trying a bit of “female chastity” as well.  I saw you had the one brief stint of orgasm denial for Lady M, but do you still consider trying an actual device for any period of time at all?  I’ve always wondered if the female devices are really even that practical…”

As you know cagedmonkey and I do, very rarely, have a bit of the “Switch” in us. I’ll be honest and say it’s a controlled type of switch meaning it’s something, as the dominant one, I’m allowing him to do. I love when we do this because once in a freaking while it’s nice to not HAVE to be in control of every damn thing. The other part of that is that I actually do like to experience “the other side” of things. I like to know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of things. It also helps me to know how to be a better Domme! 🙂

The answer to your question pcguy is yes, we do still plan to lock my sexiness up in a female chastity device. We wanted to do it right and not buy some novelty item off Amazon, so we ordered a custom sized locking one. It’s not a true custom device it’s just one that will fit my size, since I’m pretty sure with my huge tits people realize I’m not some nasty pencil thin model chick. It is a black leather device that requires three padlocks to even keep it on and closed. If I could find it right now I would post a pic, but it’s packed somewhere.

So, why haven’t we used it yet? Well first… we need three locks lol and didn’t have them right away, second we ended up moving and third we started to really think about the practicality and logistics of it all. Could I possibly wear it and function – it’s nothing like just having a cage locked on your cock. I mean seriously, every morning after my second cup of coffee who wants to be unlocking 3 padlocks while I’m about to burst?! That and I can literally think myself into an orgasm so the device is really about keeping me from sex… I have to mentally stop my orgasms.

So far it’s been hard to work out how we would actually do it properly. We did come across another device that is slightly different. That device could make these things happen a bit sooner. I will be honest and say that I would never be locked up like my cagedmonkey. Mine would definitely be short term compared to his! I have this fear that if I suppress the horny it might get pushed so far that I lose it again… no one in the world wants Lady to lose her horny!

I hope this answers your question and I thank you for asking. 🙂 please let us know if you have any other questions.


5 responses to “Mail Chastity: Female Chastity

  1. I have always wondered about how a woman would keep herself clean and hygienic. Once I can get that figured out…..

    I have this really cool idea where we both are locked up with a Dom that will control us both. I wanted to push the limits of time and see how well we could satisfy each other in other ways beyond intercourse. To make each other orgasm in other ways or just be sexually satisfies without the dick or clit to get us there.


    • Kp,

      That’s exactly what cagedmonkey and I were thinking – minus the “Dom to control us both.” We want to control each other but as you mentioned, use every other way we can to satisfy each other. 🙂

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  2. Thanks for addressing this! You’re right, the leather ones with multiple padlocks look like they’d be kind of a pain, and kind of defeats the purpose of chastity if you have to take it off every time you go to the bathroom, right? 🙂 I was just curious if you’d ever consider something like a custom metal one that supposedly still lets you pee through it (though I still don’t know how practical that would really be for a woman.) I look forward to hearing how your “other” device works out that you’re looking into!

    Also, again I can’t speak from a ladies perspective, but I don’t think “suppressing the horny” would be too big of an issue! In my experience (and I’m sure cagedmonkey could attest as well) it is quite the opposite. Wearing a chastity greatly enhances, and drives horniness to wild new levels!


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